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I'm so sick and tired of my older sister not holding respect for me. And by that I mean for instance one of my worst pet peeves that she does is use my things without asking. Ex. She takes my lotion (expensive kind!), wears clothes all the time, takes my makeup, my cell phone charger to charge hers because she's always losing her own. And all this is without asking or after I've nicely (and rudely) asked her before not to. How do I end this? Please don't say hitting or anything. Keep in mind that se is very self-centered. I'm not just throwing that in there because I'm pissed but I say, my mom says it,her boy friend says it, and she always denies it. Please teach me some respect methods or somethin' haha

Well, it sounds like normal sister stuff to me. I have two girls and my younger daughter likes to "borrow" her sis's things sometimes. I would say just sit down and have a talk with her about it.
I am all for sharing, if at all possible, but she should respect your wishes and ask first. If she continues to take things without permission, lock your room or put your things away somewhere that she can't find them. I hope she will listen to your wishes. Having a sister is such a special relationship. Mine are my best friends, but we're grown now.