Health Forum

It seems like there are more and more things that need to be done to stay attractive enough to keep men's attention. Dieting, exercise, tanning, haircuts, highlights, teeth whitening, mani's & pedi's, etc. I try to do what I can, some to be attractive and some to feel good ... but I really don't like having people mess with my hands and feet. Is it ok to only do this for weddings and such? Almost every female I know gets them regularly now.

wow... guys (at least myself) do not even notice if you are wearing make up let alone notice if youve done anything to yours hand or feet... when i saw my girlfriend without make up for the first time (after about a month of dating) i didnt even notice and she thought she looked so ugly... guys dont pay attention to that stuff

As long as you file them to keep them from getting jagged I'm sure no guy would know the difference.

I don't think I'd do any of the above except maybe having my teeth whitened (drink too much soda). mani's and pedis are overrated.

it does'nt follow.

Have never spent much time considering any of my girlfriends' nails, so in my book you're good to go.

Its good to take care of yourself. you don't need a manicure or pedicure to be attractive though. people who think that they need to be gussied up to look good are pretty shallow.
if your going to do it do it to make your self feel good. just be yourself it doesn't matter if that's good enough for someone else